
Leadership Taboos: The Male and Female Rhythm at Work
About
There are many topics that no one is afraid to talk about today: mental health, neurodiversity, and burnout. But the topic of biological rhythms in men and women raises at least slight concern, even though it is our biology, our natural cycle, which affects our effectiveness and relationships at work. Most organisations operate at a rhythm established decades ago, based on a single energy level and a single way of functioning. And yet our teams are more diverse than ever. We differ not only in our competencies, but also in our biological rhythms. That is why I would like to start ‘defusing’ this topic not only by talking about its impact
on the way we work, but also by showing how leaders could unlock the potential of their teams if they were aware of this rhythm. And I'm not just talking about women. Men are also governed by biology and have their own rhythms. Really :)
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Talk in brief
In this WaysConf 2025 presentation, author and strategic designer Aga Szóstek explores how biological rhythms and hormonal cycles impact workplace performance, decision-making, and leadership. Szóstek breaks down the 24-hour male testosterone cycle, noting its morning peak and afternoon dip, and contrasts it with the multi-phase female cycle, which mirrors four seasons of varying creativity, focus, and energy. While men and women share identical core cognitive abilities, their social behaviors, risk tolerance, and emotional baselines fluctuate differently. Szóstek advises leaders to move away from rigid, industrial-era schedules and instead design work environments that respect these biological realities. This includes offering flexible working hours to match individual circadian rhythms, scheduling high-energy creative tasks for the morning, and normalizing afternoon recovery breaks. Ultimately, building organizational awareness of these natural cycles allows teams to communicate their needs without stigma, reduce burnout, and optimize collective productivity.
Key takeaways
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Leverage the Male Daily Testosterone Peak
Men experience a significant testosterone boost in the morning, making it the optimal time for competitive tasks or difficult negotiations. Conversely, late afternoon is the best time for others to negotiate with male leaders as their testosterone drops and they become more relaxed.
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Align Female Tasks with Cycle Seasons
Women experience distinct cognitive shifts throughout their monthly cycle, with the spring phase boosting creativity and networking, while the autumn and winter phases favor deep focus, detail-oriented tasks, and strategic planning. Forcing high energy during low-hormone phases leads to chronic fatigue and performance debt.
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Understand Gender Cognitive Commonalities
Despite hormonal differences, men and women possess identical core cognitive functions, including logical thinking, problem-solving speed, learning efficiency, and daily decision-making capabilities. Differences lie in behavioral and emotional fluctuations, not intellectual capacity.
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Incorporate Afternoon Recovery Breaks
Both genders experience energy dips during the day, with men experiencing a sharp testosterone drop between one and three in the afternoon. Leaders should facilitate guilt-free recovery zones or short breaks to restore focus for the rest of the workday.
Watch from 2:24 - 05
Build Awareness to Avoid Taboos
Discussing biological cycles in the workplace should focus on general awareness and personal needs rather than invasive questioning. When employees understand their own rhythms, they can request task adjustments or schedule shifts without having to disclose private medical details.
Watch from 29:40
Video chapters
- 0:32The 24-Hour Male Hormonal Cycle
Aga Szóstek explains how testosterone drives male energy, confidence, and focus, peaking in the morning and dropping throughout the day.
- 6:59The Four Seasons of the Female Cycle
This section details how estrogen and progesterone fluctuations divide the female monthly cycle into distinct phases of creativity, productivity, focus, and rest.
- 16:41Cognitive Similarities and Behavioral Differences
The speaker highlights that while core intellectual abilities are identical across genders, social behaviors, risk-taking, and sleep patterns differ due to hormones.
- 20:42Designing Leadership Around Biological Rhythms
Szóstek outlines how modern leaders can optimize team performance by aligning tasks with natural energy peaks and circadian rhythms.
- 23:11Practical Strategies for Workplace Recovery
This chapter focuses on the necessity of breaks, flexible working hours, and avoiding continuous night work to prevent chronic exhaustion.
- 29:40Navigating Sensitive Biological Discussions
During the Q&A, Szóstek provides advice on how to build organizational awareness around hormonal cycles without invading employee privacy.
- 33:16Fostering Team-Driven Rhythms
The session concludes with a discussion on practical remote-work rituals, such as asynchronous check-ins and dedicated lunch breaks away from screens.
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These concise notes were edited from automatic captions and checked against the talk structure. They are not a verbatim transcript.
The Daily Rise and Fall of Testosterone
Men operate on a 24-hour hormonal cycle driven by testosterone, which is lowest at the start of the night and rises during sleep to peak in the morning. This morning surge provides a thirty percent increase in testosterone compared to the rest of the day, fueling assertiveness, focus, and competitiveness. Because of this, the morning is the most effective time for men to tackle difficult challenges or debates. As the day progresses, testosterone levels steadily decline, leading to a noticeable energy dip in the early afternoon and a highly relaxed, non-combative state by the evening.
Watch from 1:18The Creative and Social Boost of Estrogen
During the follicular phase of the female cycle, known metaphorically as spring, a surge of estrogen increases brain plasticity and enhances neural communication. This biological shift provides women with a significant boost in creativity, curiosity, and social energy, making it an ideal time for brainstorming, networking, and launching new projects. However, this high-energy phase also has a downside, as it can lead to perfectionism, difficulty concentrating on highly repetitive tasks, and a tendency to make minor detail-oriented mistakes.
Watch from 7:36Focus and Decision-Making in the Autumn Phase
As progesterone peaks and then begins to drop in the autumn phase of the female cycle, women experience a shift toward deep focus and risk aversion. This phase serves as a natural period for self-organization and critical decision-making. It is the time when women can realistically evaluate commitments made during more optimistic phases, streamline schedules, and directly communicate boundaries. While directness is a superpower here, the drop in estrogen can also trigger self-criticism and a temporary decline in creative thinking.
Watch from 12:31The Importance of Rest During the Winter Phase
The menstrual phase, or winter, is characterized by low levels of all primary hormones, resulting in a natural drop in physical and mental energy. Instead of forcing productivity and incurring a performance debt that damages the next cycle, women should use this time for low-energy tasks like strategic planning, goal setting, and detail-oriented work. Accepting this temporary drop in social drive and creativity prevents chronic fatigue and allows the body to recover properly for the upcoming cycle.
Watch from 14:10Addressing Hormonal Cycles Without Offending Employees
Discussing hormonal cycles in a professional setting requires a delicate approach that prioritizes general education over personal intrusion. Leaders should never ask employees direct, invasive questions about their menstrual cycles. Instead, organizations should foster a culture of general biological awareness. When both managers and team members understand how these rhythms affect energy and focus, employees feel empowered to communicate their current capacity and request task adjustments or extensions purely based on their needs, without needing to disclose private medical information.
Watch from 29:40Practical Rituals for Remote Team Well-being
Creating healthy workplace rhythms is especially crucial for remote teams, who often have to establish their own boundaries to stay sane. Effective team-driven practices include starting the day with asynchronous check-ins focused on personal well-being, blocking out collective focus times to prevent meeting fatigue, and respecting long lunch breaks. A critical but often ignored rule is to step away from the computer entirely during lunch; eating at one's desk while staring at a laptop screen prevents true cognitive recovery and leads to afternoon burnout.
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